If you disagree with Han Chinese, and if you tell them the reasons why you disagree or what you think they should do, Han Chinese would not ask if what you say is true or false, fair or not, but usually they would response to you by asking, “Who are you? (It means ” Are you the upper?”)” or, blaming you, “You are arrogant!”, or warning you, “If you say again, I will do more (against your will)”, or simply threatening, “Slap you!”

Why? It is because they think you must be the lower if you explain. No higher ranked Han Chinese do that way. Higher ranked Han Chinese shout, threaten, blame and rebuke to be arrogant, rude and violent. And in that case, the disagreed Han Chinese would accept like the lower accepts the upper.

And how do Han Chinese response to your behavior when you let them think you are a violent reckless attacker? Usually they satisfy you to avoid a fighting. But if you make them think you are peaceful and kind, they would threaten you by saying, “slap you”, or “beat you”, or “kill you”, …

You can never expect your reasons to be considered by Han Chinese only because the reasons are true or fair. Han Chinese accept anything from the higher ranked other Han Chinese, but they don’t think truth or fairness high enough.