Han Chinese hurt you and destroy the relationship. And when you leave them after you got hurt, they would arrogantly blame you, educate you or rebuke you, “You don’t know how to make friends with others!” “You destroyed the relationship with others.” “You must be in the bad relationship with anybody.” “You isolate yourself.” “You don’t know the importance of close relationship with others.” “You can’t live a good life in the future if you can’t be in good relationship with others.” And they would enlighten you, “Don’t you know that someone can smile when others hurt him? He can make friends with anybody however others treated him. Everybody likes him. I have never heard him complaining after I treated him that badly. He will gain great achievements in the future because he can make friends with everybody.”
Han Chinese didn’t destroy the relationship with others after they hurt others. So, in the end, who destroyed the relationship? Han Chinese think those who resisted to the offense or leave the relationship after getting hurt did. Who should take responsibility for the sore relationship? And who should be blamed? Han Chinese have the same answer.
How do Han Chinese comment on themselves as the offenders, then? We are Han Chinese. We are great. Can we do anything wrong?
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The responsibility for a good relationship is also one-sided. The extremely evil one-sided Han Chinese ethnic group!
