Why are you angry after you got offended? Han Chinese think it is because you think about it. So, it isn’t the offender’s problem. It is the victim’s problem. So, the victim should blame him/herself because he/she thinks about the offense. If the victim forgets it, he/she should not be angry after getting offended.

But if themselves are angry, it must be because of you. Because they think of you when they are angry. It is why you should be blamed.